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<How seven widowed fathers overcame self-doubt>
每年有成千上万的幼儿父母死亡。在担心那些孩子的同时,也会引发一个问题,他们该不该和孩子们讨论他们一方父母的死亡。有很多父母认为自己是一个不称职的父母,英国精神分析学家Donald Winnicott introduced the wonderfully forgiving notion of the “good enough” mother whose central idea was that perfect parenting was neither possible nor desirable.
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<The importance of darkness in kids’ books>
我们想尽力保护孩子们免受伤害,想把世界上所有黑暗的一面隐藏起来,但或许孩子们会需要一点点的黑暗来使自己强大起来。a fraction of her innocence had been lost. But maybe these episodes of loss are as vital to the well- adjusted child’s development as moments of joy. Maybe instead of anxiously trying to protect our children from every hurt and heartache, our job is to support them through such experiences. To talk to them. To hold them.