奥斯卡最佳影片告诉你怎么找到黄金话题切入点

兔斯基

　　88届奥斯卡最佳影片奖项给了《聚焦》，一个由真实事件改编，讲述新闻人顶住压力揭露教会丑闻的故事。(你就说三观正不正?正不正!)这个结果鼓舞的当然不仅仅是电影人，还让更多媒体从业者感到欣慰并快乐着。

　　难得的是，《聚焦》并不是一部简单的新闻从业者“伟哥”，它没有过度修饰和宣讲新闻与正义，而是用大篇幅的镜头扎实地还原了采访过程，抽丝剥茧直指真相。

　　采访，往宽泛里说，就是信息的交流：如何建立信任、破冰、引入事实、刺激、信息核实……这其中要用到措辞的技巧，话题的掌控，对时机的判断，肢体语言的配合等等。

　　有没有发现?以上这些技巧在你的口语练习中都会用到。日常交流的关系当然不如采访般高度紧张和浓缩，但一些话题的选择、沟通礼仪是通用的。今天的干货就是告诉你如何与陌生人快速建立话题，用下面这25个破冰金句全面拓展你的交际圈。

　　Where did you grow up?

　　你是在哪长大的?

　　This is a great icebreaker that gets someone talking about the past, which often puts others at ease.

　　这是非常好的一句开场白，可以让对方谈论起过去，这样对话双方会比较轻松。

　　Do you have any pets?

　　你养宠物吗?

　　People love their pets, and inquiring about them encourages further conversation. And, even if the person you're chatting with doesn't have any, it's still a good start.

　　人们都喜欢宠物，问起他们的宠物能让对话进行下去。即使对方没有宠物，这也不失为一个好的开场白。

　　What's your favorite book?

　　你最喜欢的书是哪一本?

　　Instead of asking what people are reading right now, which can be a bit too intimate, asking about a book they love can create a mutual connection.

　　如果直接询问对方正在阅读的书，显得太过亲密。而问他们喜欢的书利于在彼此之间建立联系。

　　What's the first thing you do after work?

　　下班后做的第一件事是什么?

　　Do you kick off your shoes? Hit the gym? Asking how people relax makes them feel relaxed.

　　是踢掉鞋子?去健身?问人们如何放松能让他们感到愉快。

　　What‘s your dream job?

　　你理想的职业是什么?

　　Even at a corporate gathering, inquiring about someone's dream job is a fun way to get a conversation started.

　　即使是在公司聚会上，问理想职业也是开始对话的一种有效方式。

　　If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

　　如果你可以住在世界上任何一个地方，你会住在哪?

　　Not everyone gets to travel tons, making this a fun question for anyone.

　　不是每个人都有机会到处旅行，这个问题能让大家都开心起来。

　　What countries have you traveled to?

　　你去过哪些国家?

　　Even if you haven't traveled the world, asking if others have encourages someone to share memories.

　　即使你没有出去旅游过，问问别人可以让他们分享回忆。

　　Do you like to cook?

　　你喜欢烹饪吗

　　Asking about favorite dishes and culinary adventures sparks delicious dishing.

　　问问对方最喜欢的菜肴，烹饪方面的经历总能引起有趣的话题。

　　What's your favorite food?

　　你最喜欢的食物是什么?

　　Everyone eats, making this an icebreaker that works anywhere, anytime.

　　民以食为天，这个问题百试不灵。

　　What's your favorite drink?

　　你最喜欢的饮料是什么?

　　A wonderfully basic question, asking about best-loved beverages works at any gathering.

　　绝妙的常规问题。任何聚会上问这个问题总不会错。

　　Do you have a favorite local restaurant?

　　你有最喜欢的餐厅吗?

　　This is a great conversation to get people talking about their favorite local hangouts, which puts everyone at ease.

　　这个问题能让人们谈论起日常休闲的地方，使大家放松。

　　What‘s your favorite movie?

　　你最喜欢哪部电影?

　　You can find out a lot about a person when you chat about a favorite movie. Follow it up with specific questions, such as scene stealers and actors in the flick.

　　人们对电影的喜好能反映个人特点。接着问些具体的问题，比如谁最抢戏，片中的演员等等。

　　What movie are you dying to see?

　　哪一部电影你非看不可?

　　Jump in with a question that involves everyone and will get a group chatting over new releases.

　　这个问题可以让所有人都加入到对新影片的讨论中。

　　What are you watching on TV?

　　你都看些什么电视节目?

　　This is another question that won't offend and is open-ended, encouraging even the supershy to start chatting.

　　这又是一个比较中性的问题，答案很开放，让那些性格内向的人也能加入讨论。

　　What's the last concert you went to?

　　你最近去的音乐会是那一场?

　　Another easygoing question for one-on-one conversation or for jumping into a group conversation. And it's a fun way to find out what kinds of music your new friends listen to.

　　这个话题不仅适合两个人谈论，作为小组讨论的话题也完全没问题，还能让你知道新朋友的音乐偏好。

　　What's the craziest thing you've ever done?

　　你做过的最疯狂的事是什么?

　　For those who are ready to make a bold first impression, this is a question that gets attention and can lead to fun conversation.

　　如果你想让人印象深刻的话，这是一个能够吸引注意而且制造乐趣的话题。

　　If you were stranded on a deserted island and you could have only one item, what would it be?

　　如果你被困在沙漠中但只能带一样东西，你会带什么?

　　Yes, a classic one-liner, but this convo starter always gets a good answer.

　　没错，就是这个经典的问题，但通常你会得到一个好回答。

　　What‘s your favorite season?

　　你最喜欢的季节是哪一个?

　　Here's a question that works well with the "it's always easy to talk about the weather" concept. Follow up by asking about the current weather conditions, and you have a conversation.

　　这个问题验证了那句“如果不知道说什么，问天气总是没错的。”这之后再问现在的天气状况，对话就开始啦。

　　Do you speak any other languages?

　　你会说其他语言吗?

　　Asking a semipersonal question encourages others to share information about themselves without feeling guarded.

　　问一些比较私人的话题，可以让对方分享一些信息但又不会过度防备。

　　Do you have anything fun planned for the weekend?

　　这个周末有什么计划?

　　Make chatting easy by asking about future plans — without setting off a stalker vibe. Keep it light and share your plans too.

　　关于未来打算的问题让对话变得轻松，但不要刨根问底，给人居心叵测的感觉。尽量保证话题轻松，同时也分享你的计划。

　　Where's your favorite place to hang out in town?

　　最喜欢的去处?

　　Here is another fun way to start a conversation about your community without being threatening。 And it opens discussion to favorite restaurants, bars, and shops.

　　这又是一个有趣而不私人的开场问题。接着就可以讨论最喜欢的餐厅，酒吧和商店。

　　I like your shirt! Where did you get it?

　　我很喜欢你的衬衫，在哪买的?

　　A genuine compliment makes anyone smile.

　　真诚的称赞能换来对方的笑脸。

　　I can't place this song — do you know it?

　　我想不起来这首歌叫什么了——你知道吗?

　　Hey, even if you know the tune, asking someone else about the music playing is a simple start.

　　哪怕你知道答案，问对方这个问题能轻松的让你们开始攀谈。

　　How long have you been at your job?

　　你在现在的工作岗位上做了几年?

　　Even at a corporate event, asking others about their job titles, roles, and how long they have been at the company breaks the ice.

　　即使在公司活动上，询问关于职位和工作时间也是很好的开场白。

　　Tell me about something that made you laugh this week.

　　告诉我这星期让你开心的事情吧。

　　Everyone loves a good laugh! Asking about something that brought on a chuckle makes anyone smile.

　　人人都爱笑!讨论点有趣的事能让人开怀一笑。